No man is an Island

Though there is no shortage of heroes the past few weeks, a notable pair is Rabbi Tzvi Ralbag, and his Rebbetzin Paghit of The Island Avenue shul.

Within 24 hours of Sandy having paid her unwelcome visit, Rabbi Ralbag attempted to contact each member of the shul to determine their status. Were they safe? Was their home damaged? Did they have power? Did they have any special needs? Since communication by phone and e-mail was often impossible, Rabbi Ralbag assembled a small team, who walked into the darkness to knock on individual doors, until they were certain that everyone was safe for the evening.

Over the ensuing days, the Rabbi demonstrated unparalleled leadership, struggling to identify and quickly fill various needs. Not only did the Ralbags ensure that families with flooded homes had safe places to stay, but that even those without power would spend Shabbat in a warm, lit home.

Rebbetzin Ralbag hosted play groups in her home for little children, to free their parents to attend to their damaged homes. She drove those who lost their vehicles from here to there and back again. Dozens of people came through her home to eat, sleep, and recharge-electrically and spiritually.

Under the leadership of the Ralbags, a list was quickly compiled, describing who was available to provide which services. Those whose damage was minimal, or who had power, volunteered to provide laundry facilities, taxi services, hot meals, lodging, legal services, insurance assistance, and home repairs. Teenage girls helped with childcare, and teenage boys helped with schlepping and cleaning. The shul hosted community dinners providing warmth and light to their congregants.

Like many, the shul is turning to the challenge of repairing and rebuilding. The Ralbags are working with a group of professionals to help individuals navigate the complex world of insurance, FEMA, and all the appropriate agencies providing relief.