Our parasha, Bo, tells the story of the Jewish people’s departure from Egypt: “It came to pass at the end of 430 years, and it came to pass in that very day, that all the legions of the L-rd went out of the land of Egypt. (Shemot 12:41).
On a certain level, Chazal were troubled by our people’s redemption from Egypt. After all, we had sunk to the 49th level of impurity (Zohar Chadash, Parashat Yitro) to the extent that the malachai hasharet (ministering angels) declared shortly thereafter at the Sea of Reeds: “These [Egyptians] and these [Jews] are idol worshippers; why, then, are you saving the Jewish people and drowning the Egyptians in the Sea [of Reeds], for in truth, there is no difference between them?!” (Midrash Tehillim 1:20, 15:5, Zohar, Parashat Terumah 170).
Two major midrashic sources answer this formidable question by noting that we were worthy of the Exodus, and, by extension, the miracle of kriat yam suf, based upon four crucial criteria. During the long dark night of Egyptian slavery, we never changed our names from their original Hebrew formulation, we continued to speak the Hebrew language, we remained pure and rejected the promiscuous behaviors of Egyptian culture, and we did not speak lashon harah (in negative terms) of one another. (Mechilta d’Rabbi Yishmael, Parashat Bo, Mesichta d’ Pischa, Parasha 5, Midrash Vayikra Rabbah 32:5)
The first three criteria focus on the continuity of our ethnic identity. Thus, even though we engaged in the severe sin of idol worship, we steadfastly refused to assimilate, and rejected nearly all of the undesirable aspects of Egyptian culture. Given the powerful draw of our overlords’ society, this was laudatory indeed.
Lashon harah appears to be the outlier on this list, since it seems to refer solely to our behavior, rather than to the essence of our national being. Why, then, did our Sages view it as a constitutive element in Hashem’s decision to redeem us from Egypt? In order to understand lashon harah’s singular import in this context, let us briefly review Chazal’s attitude concerning this serious transgression. We are fortunate that Talmud Bavli, Arakin 15b serves as a mini-encyclopedia of our Sages’ attitude on this subject: “Rabbi Yochanan said in the name of Rabbi Yossi ben Zimra: ‘Anyone who speaks lashon harah is as if he has totally rejected G-d Himself (kafar b’ikar).’ Rav Chisda said in the name of Mar Ukba that: ‘Anyone who speaks lashon harah is fitting to be put to death by stoning’.” A second statement by Rav Chisda in the name of Mar Ukba is even more powerful: “[Regarding] anyone who speaks lashon harah, Hakadosh Baruch Hu (the Holy One Blessed Be He) Himself declares: ‘He and I are unable to dwell in the same world’.”
It is important to recognize that these statements are far more than sermonic musings meant to dissuade us from speaking lashon harah. Instead, they have deep and abiding halachic ramifications. For example, consider Rambam’s take:
“Our Sages said: ‘There are three sins for which retribution is exacted from a person in this world and, [for which] he is [additionally,] denied a portion in the world to come: idol worship, forbidden sexual relations, and murder. Lashon harah is equivalent to all of them.’
“Our Sages also said: ‘Anyone who speaks lashon harah is like one who denies Hashem (kafar b’ikar) as implied by Sefer Tehillim 12:5: “Those who said: With our tongues, we will prevail; our lips are our own. Who is L-rd over us”?’
“In addition, they said: ‘Lashon harah kills three [people], the one who speaks it, the one who listens to it, and the one about whom it is spoken. The one who listens to it [suffers] more than the one who speaks it’.” (Mishneh Torah, Hilchot De’ot 7:3)
We can now better understand why Chazal included lashon harah as one of the four essential elements leading up to the Exodus by closely examining Rav Chisda’s second statement: “Anyone who speaks lashon harah, Hakadosh Baruch Hu Himself declares, ‘He and I are unable to dwell in the same world’!” The Maharal (Rabbi Judah Loew ben Bezalel) notes that this phrase is also used in connection with the negative personality trait of ga’avah (arrogance):
“And it appears that these two formulations [connecting ga’avah and lashon harah with our phrase] are in accordance with the dispute that is found in Talmud Bavli, Avodah Zarah, as to whether chasidut (righteousness) is greater or anavah (humility) is greater regarding their overarching effect on the world. [In reality,] each of these middot (ethical characteristics) is the polar opposite of its negative counterpart. This means that the quality of ga’avah is the opposite of anavah, and lashon harah, which is evil … to the extent that there is nothing called evil like lashon harah, is the exact opposite of the middah of chasidut that is most surely good for everyone. (Netivot Olam, Netiv HaAnavah III, s.v. v’od sham)
At this juncture, the Maharal provides a clear summary of his thinking regarding the nexus that obtains between anavah and ga’avah, and chasidut and lashon harah: “And the author of the opinion that maintains that anavah is the most outstanding of all characteristics asserts that its opposite is ga’avah — the most offensive of all behavioral orientations. In contrast, the author of the opinion that asserts that chasidut is the ultimate positive personality trait affirms that its opposite is lashon harah.” (Ibid.)
The Maharal’s cogent analysis reveals to us why Chazal viewed our ancestors’ refusal to speak lashon harah as having such remarkable significance. In short, although we were ovdei avodah zarah (idol worshippers), we nonetheless treated one another with chasidut, and thereby created an environment wherein, He [the Jewish people] and I [Hashem] are able to dwell in the same world! Therefore, the Holy One blessed be He redeemed us from Egyptian bondage, split the Sea of Reeds, gave us His holy Torah and the Land of Israel, and declared through His prophet, Hosea: “And I will betroth you to Me forever, and I will betroth you to Me with righteousness and with justice and with loving-kindness and with mercy. And I will betroth you to Me with faith, and you shall know the L-rd.” (Sefer Hoshea 2:21-22)
May Hosea’s words ring loud and clear in the ears of our entire nation as we stand shoulder to shoulder in chasidut, so that we may bring Hashem’s holy presence into our midst and be zocheh to welcome the Mashiach soon and in our days. V’chane yihi ratzon.